Personal transformation is about becoming the most authentic expression of yourself. It is not about becoming some other person or some ideal that you have developed by rejecting yourself.

A lot of people live in a state of self rejection. It is a living hell that most people have some relationship with. We reject ourselves and try to conform to the expectations of others. We fear rejection but end up in a state of constant rejection. The more you run away from who you really are, the more you live in the energy of rejection. That is because, even if people reward for your in-authenticity, you won’t feel better because deep down you feel like a fake.

So, personal transformation is about clearing the self rejection that you have within you. It is about coming into a state of self love and authentic self expression. The ultimate transformation is to transform into the most authentic version of you.

What makes personal transformation easier?

The thing that makes personal transformation easier is to stop rejecting and avoiding our emotions.

Emotions are feelings and feelings are senses just like vision and hearing. We generally understand that we wouldn’t want to impair our vision just because we witnessed something disturbing. If you were walking down the street and saw something gross, you wouldn’t blind yourself in order to never see such a thing.

But that’s what everyone is doing with their feelings all of the time. When you reject your emotions you do not transform. You become stuck and you stay that way. The emotions you avoid become a boundary that keeps you trapped.

What does it mean to be transformed?

Anything positive or negative could be called transformation. The transformation I am interested in is a transformation where we become grounded in self acceptance, self love and self expression.

When you transform to the point that you live in self acceptance, self love and self expression, you take on a new energy. You develop wisdom and understanding. You don’t envy others because you are aware that we all have our own unique paths. This type of transformation makes you compassionate about yourself and others. It allows you to focus on your passion and your mission in life.

The funny thing about becoming a new person is that it is not about addition, it is about subtraction. Personal transformation is as simple as being yourself.

What I mean by that is that the new person you aspire to be is already within. You don’t need to add new elements. All you need to do is remover the inauthentic fears and areas where you reject yourself. When you do that the inner being that is you can emerge. It is not about learning. It is about un-learning.

Personal transformation leads to Global transformation

My past life regression teacher and mentor, Dolores Cannon, wrote a book called “The Three Waves of Volunteers and the New Earth”. In this book she went through many past life regression sessions where clients reported coming into this life in order to be a part of a huge uplifting of the consciousness and “frequency” of Earth. We are spirits that are not forever bound to Earth but we can be a part of this transformation. And the only way to transform others is to do our own work first.

Too many of us focus on what we reject about others while ignoring the fact that this rejection is just an out picturing of our own rejection of ourselves. As we come into a state of embodiment, embodying our talents and uniqueness, we end many cycles of drama that keep us trapped. We realize that there truly is no competition or need for destructive interpersonal drama. When we come into that state we change the world, if only just a little.